March 3rd was the sixth month of our stay in SoKo. We've had a lot of fun here thus far and plan to have a lot more. Jacob describes Korea as being a second college experience for the foreigners who come here. We have our jobs but we lack any other real responsibility. We go to work, come home, and do whatever we want. There is no family/friend drama because we are so far from everyone that there is little we can do to effect anything thus leaving us out of the equation. Out of sight, out of mind. We don't have to pick anyone up, take care of anyone or anything, or go anywhere - we lack obligations. While this is great in some respects, it sucks in others. I find myself trying a lot harder to constantly stay updated on what is going on with my family. I don't mind the struggle as I want to stay connected with family and friends but...it does make you reevaluate who your true friends are. True friends are those people that you actually keep in contact with while the others aren't. I've never been away from my family like this - unable to hop in a car and drive XX hours to see them.
Do I miss my family and friends? Of course I do. But I know I'll see them when I get back so I'm enjoying my time here for now.
After spending the past six years constantly worried about having the money to pay people, bills, and for food, freaking out about day to day living, and running a company neither of us wanted to begin with - we're free of responsibility. I have to say that we're enjoying the life we have here. I've heard Jacob mention several times that he feels a lot better here and is happy with his current standing. He certainly won't be getting any ulcers in Korea!
Korea is a world apart from all others. It is nice to be here for a little while - to recharge our batteries. We won't be staying here for the rest of our lives but I do notice that Jacob is more relaxed and peaceful then he's been in years. That alone is worth our time here.
Jacob's headed back to Georgia to wrap up some company stuff - like finally getting it out of his name so we can move on with our lives. He'll also be bringing back my love - Icarus. Six months without my pup was far too long. This throws a wrench into plans of coming back together in December but we'll figure things out.
All in all, I'm glad we are in Korea. I think we would be miserable by now had we stayed in the states. It's nice to experience new things and travel the world. I do miss my family and friends. I should be seeing you guys this December/January!
um - how about TRUE TRUE friends come all the way to Korea to visit!!!! :-)
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